Love is a strong and positive emotional and mental status. It can act as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships. Love exists between two persons, more than two persons, person to object, pets, Animals etc. In order to have love, there should be some relationship between the two. It exists between mother-son, mother-daughter, Grandparents- Grandchildren, Husband –wife, etc. In all the relations love has its different forms.
Here I am going to talk about husband-wife relation: It is an eternal pure form of love, where two people of different families come together to live the entire life with each other. There is no blood relation exist, but still, it’s such a close relationship that you are ready to share each and everything. It is the beginning of the new family. The entire universe is formed by this relation.
Men possess different traits while women have different. The love between men and women is magical. They are delighted in being together, doing things together, and sharing together. In order to have a happy and long-lasting relationship, we should respect each other’s space. There is a huge difference between men and women; we must know these differences to have successful husband-wife relationship. We usually become angry with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth. We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves.
There are many important points which we should know about men and women :
- Remembering the difference: Men and women are from different planets. We mistakenly assume that if our partner loves us they will react and behave in certain ways, the ways we react and behave when we love someone. This attitude makes us disappointed and restricts us from taking the necessary time to communicate about our differences. In order to know we should give proper time to each other so that we will become well versed with the differences we possess.
- Listen: Listening is a very vital factor between husband and wife. The most frequently expressed complaints wife has about husband is that they don’t listen. Either a husband completely ignores her when she speaks or he listens to a few words and comes to a conclusion that is bothering and offers her a solution. It’s not always the wife needs solutions, many times she shares her problem and wants her husband to listen to it patiently. Between husband and wife sharing their personal feeling is much more important than achieving goals and success. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.
- Different behavior in the same situation: Men feels better by solving problems while women feel better by talking about problems. When the husband gets upset he never talks about what is bothering him, instead, he becomes very quiet and needs his personal space to find a solution. When a woman is in a problem she continuously feels a need to talk about her feelings and all the possible problems that are associated with her feelings.
- Learning to give: Giving is very important in any relationship specially husband-wife. It can be tangible sometimes intangible also. Love, Respect, loyalty, etc are the foremost essence. Sometimes materialistic or tangible things also give happiness.
Here I am going to discuss a few ideas which make husband and wife happy and it gives a sense of fulfillment. Everything in this world roams around the word i:e LOVE, Nothing is as important as love. We are born out of love and throughout our life, we remember those people who shower love on us. Feeling love and expressing it all together it’s different. That gives the emergence of gifts. There is a famous quote that says “surprises are better than promises.” When we promise something the other person will always have an expectation, it’s better to surprise them with different gestures.
Outing – Travelling with the partner means staying together 24/7 which gives personal space for each other. Out of a hazy schedule, we need to take out some time and go out to some exotic locations. The husband can book a beautiful resort in order to refresh the memories of the honeymoon.
Cooking – Sometimes we enjoy homemade foods served in different ambiance. Let’s suppose if the wife is cooking the food then the husband can show his creativity by arranging the candles balloons, dim lights, etc. Definitely the couple will enjoy having food like this.
Photo Collage– Collection of husband-wife pics in one collage and putting it on the bedroom /living room gives happiness, it’s a sign of love bonding, whenever they will look at it they will smile for a second at least.
Innovative birthday cake – let’s suppose there are husbands birthday and he likes playing cricket and very much fond of it then the wife can order a cake with an icing of bat and ball on it, surely he is going to like it, vice a versa can be done in case of the wife also according to her interest.
These are a few ideas that can increase our happiness with a sense of satisfaction; there are so many ways to gift our beloved. We can use our thoughts creatively and pour love into our life.